Name the task rather than assuming it

School collection, dinner, an activity ride, and a decision about treatment are different responsibilities. Agree who handles each task and which conversations need the parents or other authorized adults.

Keep communication direct

A step-parent does not have to become the default relay between homes. Decide which updates they need and which discussions should go directly to the other person responsible.

Understand CoFam’s permissions

In CoFam, the step-parent role has parent-side access to expenses and approvals. These app permissions do not establish legal authority; use a more limited role if that is the access you intend to share.

Does the step-parent app role have financial access?

Yes. CoFam includes parent and step-parent roles in its financial and approval permissions.

Does that role establish legal decision-making rights?

No. App access and legal authority are separate.

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